Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer. Psalms 19:14
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Almost Back To School
Thursday, August 2, 2012
Worship
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Goings on
I am the type of person who will text or call a person just because to tell them I'm thinking of them and hoping they are doing ok. I guess that isn't the norm at all because no one ever does that for me. I think I may get a text every now and then from a friend at church. But she's pregnant and dealing with her own issues as well. I don't know. I guess my expectations for people are just too high. I'm getting used to being alone. After the who thing with my family I was forced to really just be alone. I didn't really care that my friends didn't contact me much when I had my family to talk to but now I have no one to talk to. I mean, I could strike up a conversation if I really wanted to with someone but I feel like I'm always the one striking up the conversations these days. Everyone is just so busy and I guess I'm not making it onto their radar.
I'm tired. Really tired. We have been looking for a house now for about two weeks and this process is going to drive me crazy. We find one we like only to find out that someone swooped in and put an offer on it without seeing it, or even better, it's not a legitimate listing and we've wasted our time. The places we can afford are literally in really bad neighborhoods, which also depresses me. I am a stay at home mom, so we need somewhat of a safe neighborhood because people will eventually notice we are home all day with the kids. I am literally so frustrated. I can't even look at houses online anymore without crying. Our only other option is to move out of state. And with my husband not being able to find a job out of state, we are taking a risk even looking out of state. This whole process is so ridiculously frustrating. In the mean time, we have given our 30 day notice to our landlord and have no where to go.
I don't want to read my Bible, I don't want to pray. I just want to crawl into a hole and disappear. I don't know how to feel. I don't know how to act. I don't know what to do. I see the list of things to do getting longer and I just can't move into action to complete anything. I literally am paralyzed. All the while my children are feeling the stress of all of this. And our money is running out faster and faster every two weeks. I look at what needs to be done and what can be done and so many things are just getting left undone. Oil changes on the cars.....undone. And I just see in my head my car stranded on the side of the road broken down because we couldn't afford to get a service and oil change. It's the thoughts like this that drive me insane. Another one lately has been the realization that I am going to have to pack up our entire house by myself. My husband isn't a clean person this doesn't register in his head as something that needs to get started now. And then I realized right after that thought that my house has never been 100% clean. We are going on 2 years living here and our family pictures have been sitting in the same place collecting dust. Never hung, never even considered. I would love to do it myself but haven't had the chance. I've asked for help and it has never been done. So now, they get packed back up and moved to another house. Next time I'm not even going to unpack them. I'm just going to leave them in the box.
And then there's the whole homeschooling thing. I have come to the decision that I will register my daughter by myself. I could join a PSP, but we can't afford that either. Registering her myself is basically free. But with that comes the stress of having all the right documentation. I'm not even sure what I need. All I do know is that I have to have something on a specific color of paper and I don't even know where to get it! And all of this needs to be done by October. So I'm prioritizing in my head when things need to get done and in what order and it's driving me crazy. And with school comes curriculum. We couldn't afford to buy it at our home school conference. So I found some lady only and mailed her a check for some math curriculum that we really wanted, hoping this lady isn't a scam artist trying to steal my money.
I am so ready for this year to be over. It just seems like month after month there is something else. Day after day there is something else. I've got a daily to do list in my head and a weekly one and a monthly one. Nothing is being checked off because most of the stuff we can't afford to do. It is so frustrating. And my husband doesn't get it. I don't even know how to explain it in a way he would understand. He just tells me to stop worrying. If I stopped thinking about all of the stuff that needs to get done then who would take care of it? I don't see any magical helpers swooping in to take care of that mountain of laundry sitting on my floor. Or the dishes, or to clean my toilets or take out my trash. No one is coming to my rescue. I have to do it or it won't get done.
I need prayer. And a miracle.
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Chore Chart
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Couponing 101
I love couponing. I love it most because I get what I need for a fraction of the retail price. And this goes for everything. While you may not find a coupon for everything you need, couponing has given me a great "savings" mindset. I've learned to wait for a rock bottom price. I've also learned that patience is key. There is a lot of waiting with couponing. You may not get the best deal if you use your coupon right away. I usually wait for a really great sale and then I pounce with coupons in hand. I've been so blessed to learn so many amazing tricks of the trade and consider myself an intermediate couponer. I know how to get some great deals.
With that being said, I wanted to share some of my favorite coupon blogs. I wouldn't be a couponer if I didn't have these amazing women hunting down the deals and posting them on their wonderful blogs for me to follow.
First up. Hip2Save.com. This is my ultimate favorite website because Collin, the blog owner goes so far out of her way to really get you a wide range of deals. And she has the most easy to use coupon database in my opinion. I love her blog.
Second fave of mine is southerncalisaver.com. I am a southern cali girl and it helps so much to have another southern cali resident keeping me up on the best deals. Josie does such an amazing job of giving me the best grocery store deals and drugstore deals. Her site is simple to follow and easy to navigate around. I love that. I need things simple.
And last but certainly not least: totallytarget.com for all things Target (one of my fave stores of all time).
I like to keep things as easy as possible so I do my best to not follow a whole lot of blogs. If you are new to couponing I would suggest visiting Hip2Save.com or southerncalisaver.com and watch some of the videos they have on their site for newbies. I still go back and watch videos to help me really understand how to shop at some of these stores.
A few things that really helped me dive into couponing was to first have a list of price points to follow. Hip2Save and SouthernCaliSaver both of lists for you to print of price points for almost everything you could buy. Knowing what a good price is will definitely make you feel more confident when making purchases. Also, knowing store coupon policies is a big one. You will feel so much more confident when using your coupons if you know what a particular stores rules are. There's nothing worse than spending the time filling your cart only to be told at the checkout lane that your coupon can't be used for an item. Ouch! Been there, done that. Now I carry my coupon policies with me at all times. And one last bit of advice is to not freak out. Don't let a coupon's expiration date make you think you HAVE to use it. I used to think that way until I figured out that coupons show up in cycles. Usually when a coupon expires the same one will be in the paper again soon. Stay calm and Coupon!
Happy couponing!
30 Day Mom Challenge
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Busy Busy Busy
On another note, I have also started another blog over here for my church group. It's such a blessing to be able to provide something so simple. I prayed for a way to serve in our new church and the Lord flung open the doors to make that happen. I'm more grateful that the Lord is hearing my prayers. =) Anyway, go on over and check it out if you like. We are going through a study on Charles Stanley's 30 Life Principles and it is amazing so far. There are plenty of resources on the blog if you want to follow along. You will be blessed.
There are just so many things going on right now and coming up. We registered for our annual homeschool convention. We LOVE going to the convention every year and hearing wonderful speakers. This year will be special because Voddie Baucham and Ray Comfort are the key note speakers. Click on their names to check out their website. And here's a link for more info on the conference. That's pretty much it in a nutshell.
Blessings,
Jeneva
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Countdown to birthday party
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Only 2 weeks of planning left
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Still planning
Yesterday was a super busy day filled with deal hunting and cupcake test runs. But still super fun. I headed over to Albertsons with coupons in hand to hopefully pick up some goodies for the birthday party. I think I was pretty successful. Here's what I bought.
2 liter sunkist soda .99
Bought 4
Used 4 .55/1 coupons
.44 cents each
2 liter Pepsi Next soda .99
Bought 4
Used 4 .55/1 coupons
.44 cents each
20 pack frito lay chips $5.49 wyb 6 participating items
Bought 3
Used 3 $1/1 coupons
$4.49 each
Duncan Hines cake mix .99 cents wyb 6 participating items
Bought 3
.99 cents each
Starbuck's refreshers drinks .99cents each
Bought 6
Used 6 $1/1 coupons
FREE
40 count capri sun big pack $8.49
Used $1.50/1 in ad coupon
$6.99 for 40 (10 count is usually $1.97 to $2.99)
So I think I did pretty well on snagging some goodies. I was especially pleased with the 2 liter sodas. That's an amazing price for 2 liters especially name brand soda. I'm going to be heading back for more cake mix because I will be doing cake pops as well as cupcakes. And probably other cake related goodies. Can't wait for the party.
Monday, April 30, 2012
Planning a 1st Birthday
End of the month coupon clean up!
Well, it's the 30th. That means cleaning out my coupon binder. I must say this is the least exciting part of couponing but the more organized you are the more money you will save. So go look through you coupons and get rid of the expired ones. Don't fret over unused coupons either because I can guarantee you will see the exact same coupons or better ones come through the paper or online. First of the month means most coupons reset online. So get ready to fire up that printer. I know I'm excited. Happy couponing!
Current project
So I am super excited to have crochet projects to give away. This blankie is for a dear friend who is having a baby girl. It matches a cute little dress I already finished. I am so loving this yarn. I had been eyeing it for a month but the price wasn't quite right until a couple of weeks ago. I was so excited. I have a baby hat in mind as well after I finish the blanket. I will post the finished project when everything is done.
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Moving forward
I don't like the way I am when these people are around. I don't like what they deliberately try to bring out of me. It's so sad. I can never be the person I'm striving to be. I will always be that person with the past. You know? My past will never allow me to be a better person in their eyes. It just saddens me to see how these people continue to act. I mean, as followers of Christ we are supposed to turn the other cheek, right? But I know the Lord doesn't want us to be used and abused either, right? I'm so drained by it all. I just feel like all of me has been sucked right out of my ears or something.
Aren't the people who love you supposed to show that? Why then do these people take any chance to hit below the belt? I don't understand. I really am so confused. I guess the fact they are family doesn't change much. I guess when you feel threatened you lash out even if it is family. I feel wounded. Like I have a deep cut in my stomach. It hurts so much. But I'm not surprised either. I think that's what makes it worse too. I'm not surprised by these turn of events from these people. And I bet I could even predict the "I'm sorry". (Usually two days after the incident.) Although this time I think it will be another "Well you did...." fill in the blank. I'm over it. I'm almost 30 years old and my family still treats me like a door mat. I have children of my own and I don't want them to grow up with all this drama and nonsense in their lives. I think it's time for me to love them from afar and mean it. It just hurts. To know that people just don't change sometimes.
I pray that I won't be so stubborn that I will refuse to change what the Lord is asking me to change. Because God will change you. Whether we do it willingly or not. If He has to force us into submission, He will change us. I want to do so willingly. I don't want to be hard headed or stubborn to the point of my own demise.